My name is Kin Moy; I'm a former professional fighter turned professional stylist.
My tale is one of tribulations and triumph; of regret and vindication; of growth and perseverance. It sounds pretty epic when told with flourish, but most of it boils down to the typical human experience: I was overweight, socially awkward, and relentlessly bullied from 1st grade until adulthood. So it goes without saying that I wanted to be fit, popular and capable of standing up for myself. The journey from point A to point B was arduous and it has definitely made me a believer of nurture over nature.
Reshaping myself from cream-puff to modern day gladiator; from shy introvert to public figure; from slovenly clod to Dapper Dangerous has been a deliberate and vigorous process. All that I've learned along the journey has been worth even more than the coveted destination. These experiences have proven indispensable to me as a stylist and as a coach -- helping me empower my clients to be courageous in their expression, effective in their endeavors, and confident in themselves!
Far too many men struggle to reach their full potential and the nature of their obstructions usually boil down to two challenges:
They don't believe in themselves
They can't get others to believe in them
The first obstacle is the most limiting, as all triumphs are first won in the mind. A lack of self belief can be passively strengthened through positive experiences or actively overcome through deliberate mental programming and regimented practice.
The second is best resolved by refining a man's messaging and presentation. The most immediately impactful method is upgrading their appearance to authentically convey their persona and trigger positive assumptions in others. The benefits of Enclothed Cognition -- the psychological effects that clothing has on both the wearer and those they interact with -- will often bolster a client's self esteem along with his charisma.
Dapper Dangerous LLC was founded for the purpose of giving men powerful tools to get the most out of life, by improving their mindset, their aura, or some combination of the two.